The Bachelor Life's Guide to Cockblocking Your Buddies

There are some unwritten friend rules that guys have to live by.

One of the lesser known ones is the beer goggle cockblock.

If you see your buddy wrapped up in the tentacles of a monster, PULL HIM AWAY.

He will get upset.  He will want to fight you. He will tell you to fuck off. Pull him away anyway. He will thank you tomorrow.

Now, this sounds like an easy thing to do, but it can be tough. You just push through that mental bullshit that will hit you like "He's a big boy, he can handle it." or "Damn, that is SO FUNNY." It's NOT funny. When your buddies are messing around with monsters, it devalues YOU. Maybe not at this party, but the next one.

People remember that your "group" has that guy in it that nailed that monster. If you think girls don't know who's fucking who, and who is friends them, then you're kidding yourself. Don't lose the friend, save him.

Here are some helpful examples:

Being Goofy

If you boil pickup and seduction down to the absolute root base, it's this:

Become and expert in how to feel good.

Feel good yourself, and people will gravitate to you. Be an expert in making them feel great about themselves and being around you in general, and you will succeed in women, work, life, and everything else.

Being goofy and fun is not lowering your value, it's increasing it because you are increasing the good feelings surrounding you and them.

Here are some pictures to get you in the proper goofy, fun mood.

Ten dollar date flowchart

So you're still paying off Christmas, or you're smart and just bought that car/motorcycle because they are cheapest this time of the year.

OH NO!! A Date!! And she's cute!! What to do???

I suggest you take filife.com's advice and consult the below ten dollar date flow chart. It is TBL approved.

An American tragedy

This picture sums up a lot of what's wrong with America.

If you see this happening, or you see your sister/friendgirl stuck with a bunch of monsters, try to at least invite her out to get her away from them. If someone doesn't, she's going to get sucked into that self reinforcing negative energy circle and turn into a monster with them.  These people love nothing more than taking a halfway normal/cute girl and dragging her down to Hell with them.

Mistakes? What mistakes! ;D

Be not ashamed of mistakes and thus make them crimes.

Confucius

Occasionally, we all make mistakes. You'll say the wrong thing. You'll think of nothing to say, and later l'esprit d'escalier kicks in. I promise you, it doesn't matter.

These "mistakes" form the basis of greatness, invention and mastery. Your aim? Forgive yourself for any past mistakes, and conquer them! Take some classes, read some more posts, get out in the field, and do it again :D

In my early days of Day Game, I sucked! I'd approach, ask for directions, and try and hook from there. I was stuck! For all my confidence, I could not see the mistake I was making. I had to step back, return to my social circle, and observe... The key? Not the opener. Not the speech. The smile.

After a short break, I retried. I approach the same quality of sets, in the same location. I held conversations, kept it light hearted and completed by first Day Game #close.

At the moment, I'm writing a free downloadable guide for you guys on Social Circle game, and I'm working on a project of my own ;)

Paradox

The Seventh

I don't know about you but it is pay day and the only thing I can think about spending my money on is rewarding my self for working hard! So, if you are out there running your own business or getting paid to do the work for someone Else's business, I say give your self props!

If you know a lazy person that is capable of work and doesn't have any money and just doesn't want to work to pay off their bills... Good luck to them, they will need it!

my favorite quote applies here,

"America, your free but that sandwich is about tree fiddy."
TN-

Ten Rules of Feeling Good

1. Make yourself feel good first.
2. Never try to make anyone feel bad.
3. Try to make everyone around you feel good.
4. Making other people around you feel good makes YOU feel good. Even making others feel good is a semi-selfish gesture.
5. You NEVER sacrifice your own good feelings to make another person feel good.
6. You don't feel negative emotions, except when doing so makes you feel good.
7. You don't try to fix problems. You try to make people feel better about them.
8. If it's not your job, don't try to go logical or problem solve issues around. It's not fun.
9. Never look down on anything. Be indifferent about stuff that you don't like.
10. If you're failing to keep one of those rules, that's okay as long as you keep the appearance that you're following them.

The ideal kind of fun comes from a leader who engages in "mutual value escalation".  This is where someone makes someone else feel good, and themselves feel good at the same time.

Why do women love gay guys so much? They follow the feel-good plan, and mutually value escalate A LOT.

Example: "OH-MY-GOD! You're SO Pretty!"

What was your excuse again?

So you can't find a girl because of....

Oh, that's right. I mean, you'd have cute girls if only:

(Check the lame excuses that apply)

• Your Height
• Your Weight
• Your Hair
• Your Job
• Your Situation
• ((Insert your personal specific excuse(s) here) )
  

THIS GUY ONLY HAS A FUCKING ARM and he's got a girl you'd KILL to date.

He's a soldier on disability, so it's not his money she's after. What could it be that attracts her to him?

Personality, charm, and how he makes her FEEL. When she's with him, she's with a HERO. A Hero is by definition not just AN alpha, but THE alpha. She's not with a cripple, she's with a HERO.

His frame is ROCK SOLID.  Jack Nicholson looks horrible now, but gets the hottest girls. Why? Because he's not an old fat guy, he's a STAR.

When you start acting like an alpha, and keeping your frame strong, that's WHO YOU ARE. Women you meet don't know who you WERE, they know who you ARE. Act like a man, be a man, get the girl.

No excuses.

Tom Neathway. War Hero, Pickup Hero.   Respect.

Photos courtesy http://www.thesun.co.uk 

Original Articles Here and Here

TBL Guide to Confidence: Big Trouble in Little China Edition

Unshakeable confidence.

Some guys are born with it. Some guys learn it. Women love it. You need it.

They aren't any different than you, but they BELIEVE with every part of their existence that they really ARE capable of doing anything. They CREATE the world that supports this belief. And you know what? You'll follow them to the gates of Hell.

George S. Patton, the most famous general of WWII, was asked "Did you feel confident you could lead the allied forces?" He replied "Well, some son of a bitch had to do it. Why not me?"

Here's one of my favorite movie heroes, Jack Burton, in "Big trouble in little China."  He's just a truck driver, but in almost every scene he has a crowd of people backing him up or following him. Why? CONFIDENCE.

When you have confidence, you're the leader of men, get the girl, save the day, and most importantly, you get your God damn truck back.



"Everybody relax, I'm here."

Like I told my last wife, I says, "Honey, I never drive faster than I can see. Besides that, it's all in the reflexes."

Uncle Chu: What the hell is Gracie Law doing here?
Jack Burton: She can't get enough of me.
Gracie: Hah! He wishes.

"When some wild-eyed, eight-foot-tall maniac grabs your neck, taps the back of your favorite head up against the barroom wall, and he looks you crooked in the eye and he asks you if ya paid your dues, you just stare that big sucker right back in the eye, and you remember what ol’ Jack Burton always says at a time like that: ‘Have ya paid your dues, Jack?’ ‘Yes sir, the check is in the mail."

Jack Burton: Just remember what ol' Jack Burton does when the earth quakes, and the poison arrows fall from the sky, and the pillars of Heaven shake. Yeah, Jack Burton just looks that big ol' storm right square in the eye and he says, "Give me your best shot, pal. I can take it."